Hey, RDJ.

Future Life. Days 10-17

Well …. finals happened. And I got a tad behind. So this is what I call catch up. The quick list if you will. The fun little things that need little to no explanation.

At some point in my life I want too…

10- drive across the US. I’m talking NYC to LA

11- cut all of my hair off and start over

12- learn to play another instrument

13- meet someone royal…any prince, princess, king or queen will do

14- act…. just for one scene. 

15- learn how to surf

16- have a room in my house that is strictly a library

17- Spend a week in Portland. I just know I will love that city. 

Why I am not opposed to marriage equality

I’ve thought a lot about this topic. I asked you for your opinions and wanted to share mine. I had trouble deciding which words I would use to convey my thoughts and decided that C.S. Lewis said it best: 


‎”My own view is that the Churches should frankly recognize that the majority of the British (or in our case American) people are not Christians and, therefore, cannot be expected to live Christian lives. There ought to be two distinct kinds of marriage: one governed by the State with rules enforced on all citizens, the other governed by the Church with rules enforced by her on her own members. The distinction ought to be quite sharp, so that a man knows which couples are married in a Christian sense and which are not.” -C.S. Lewis

Future Life. Day 9.

At some point in my life I want to…

Meet the President

I don’t really have a long, drawn out reason for this one.

I just think it’d be fun to say, “Nice to meet you, Mr. President.”

Future Life. Day 8.

At some point in my life I want to…

Write a Book

My life has been anything but normal. Yes I am a young, white, american, blonde hair, blue-eyed girl, but that’s about as far as “normal” goes for me.

What is normal anyways? Who knows. I guess I should say my life has been an adventure. Who needs normal? I personally think normal is…well… boring. 

I think it’d be fun to write a memoir one day. Think Glass Castle. I don’t feel like I have enough knowledge or authority to write any other kind of book. But my life in book form could probably entertain at least one or two people… maybe. 

I got this text from my roommate last night. I couldn’t agree more…

Future Life. Day 7.

At some point in my life I want to…

Go to the Kentucky Derby


I’m a big fan of horses. I wanted a horse SO bad growing up. Every Christmas I’d look out in the back yard to see if Santa brought me a horse. True story.

I grew up riding almost every day. Sadly enough I am am terribly allergic to horses, but nothing that a little benadryl won’t fix.

I think that everything about the Kentucky Derby is so exciting. The horses. The events.  And of course the outfits. Here is what my Kentucky Derby outfit would be if I could go next year:

Future Life. Day 6.

At some point in my life I want to…

Visit Every Continent

Minus Antarctica of course…. leaving that one to the penguins. 

So far I’ve hit North America, Africa, and Europe. 3 more to go!

Future Life. Day 5.

At some point in my life I want to…

Adopt 


As long as I can remember I have wanted to adopt kids. I grew up in Southside Birmingham and I didn’t have a single white neighbor. I loved it. 

I love everything about adoption. The grace displayed in it, the beauty of redemption and rescue. I know it won’t be easy, but I can’t wait. And I am all for adopting white kids don’t get me wrong. I want a cultural smörgåsbord. 

This is a picture of my first birthday.

Future Life. Day 4.

At some point in my life I want to…

Start a program called Photos for Change

I have had the privilege of taking pictures and being paid to do so for almost 5 years now. I love all of the work I get to do, but hands down my favorite aspect of the job is when I get to travel and to documentary/humanitarian work. 

Earlier this year I traveled to my 20th country! Crazy right? I know… so stinking blessed. That being said I have seen a lot…A LOT… of stuff that has completely changed my perspective on just about aspect of life. I’m very thankful for that. I’ve been a guest in a home where the family had nothing, yet we sat on the dirt floor, drinking very questionable “coffee” and eating very very old food. They gave me everything they had. I was their guest. Life changing. 

That being said I would love to start a program one day where I traveled to places that are under the radar as far as media and non-profit coverage are concerned. Once in these communities I would teach a photography workshop. Include very basic photo skills, provide a meal or two each day for the duration of the workshop, then at the end go out with the students and document their community.

There would be several purposes and hopeful outcomes:

1- Teach individuals a skill that they can have fun with and be proud of. Many of the people in these communities have had all forms of self-worth stripped from them. I want them to be able to have something that they enjoy doing, learn a skill, and that they can be proud of. 

2- Shine a light on a struggling community. I’d argue that nothing speaks louder than a picture. It can tell a story in a powerful way that words often cannot. With this program the people would be able to give a voice to the issues prevalent in their community, everything from poverty to disease to injustice. This may be my favorite part of the whole idea because it teaches the people of this community to do what’s necessary to bring about change in their own community. It teaches responsibility.

3- Multiple meanings to the word “change” in the title.

First: the goal would be to highlight issues via photos within a struggling community that could then be addressed by various agencies, non-profits, etc. We must work together if we expect to see anything change. This program would allow for awareness that could bring about an army to start change for the good of the whole community. 

Second: After the photos are take and processed they could be sold. The money would go toward bettering the community in which they were taken. This is probably the most complicated part of the whole idea and would take the most work, because the last thing I want to do is hurt the community by trying to help it if that makes any sense. And money makes everything tricky. I’d love to publish a book, maybe once a year, that would include photos from these various communities and the people who take them.

This is a very young idea in my head and there are more than plenty of kinks to get worked out, but I think it’s something that could actually work. I’m excited to see the doors open for this to happen. I’m convinced that humility and open mindedness will be the key to this. 

“Everything starts with one and builds up. Eventually, we have an army.” 

Future Life. Day 3.

I’m already a day behind and it’s only day 3. This is going to be tough!

At some point in my life I want to…

Make a Documentary

I love documentaries. Probably more than fictional movies. Pretty sure my Netflix instant queue is 98% documentaries and 2% other. There is just something about them. I love it. That being said I’d love to make one one day. Not sure what I want to do it on. I do know one thing though, documentaries can often harm an issue more than help if done poorly. So I want to make sure that when I do it I do it very very well. Also I think that documentaries can often be very superficial, hypocritical, and cliche. THis happened when someone decides to pick a popular issue, go there, film footage, leave, make the movie, take the credit, and never do anything about the issue at hand. I’ve met many people who have been subjects of a documentary that feel as though the makers were on a power and fame trip, because they came and asked questions, filmed, then never returned to address issues that were brought to light in that time. I don’t want to be that. I want it to count and make a real difference not just a glamourous one. 

It is important to constantly ask yourself why you do what you do. Why I’d want to make a documentary? The answer I keep coming up with is that everyone has a story to tell. There are just some who, due to different reasons, do not have a voice to tell it with. As long as I have a voice I have a responsibility.

 I will probably end up doing it on an issue that is prevalent in the community I am in. I have traveled all over the world, but I am more convicted every day that our responsibility as humans and as believers lies in the place and with the people where the Lord has placed us. 

Future Life. Day 2.

At some point in my life I want to..

Open a Restaurant


I have always loved cooking. I think the first cooking memory I have had to be when I was about 4. I love everything about it. Making food is like making art to me. You can do anything! Well not anything… there are some disaster potentials for sure, but you know what I mean. I try to go sans recipe as much as possible. When that’s not possible I still try and add something special or different.. just to make it mine. If I had a ton of money one of the things I’d do is cook for people. All of the time. The part of the whole restaurant equation that I do not like is the business side… BUT if all I had to think about what they food it’d be a great idea!

Coffee would obviously be included in this idea. And I have to say.. I’ve traveled all over the world and I still think Primavera Coffee is the best coffee there is. I’ll have it shipped to whatever city this figurative restaurant will be happening in. Homemade chai will be a given as well. 

Starting early. Note hairnet/shower cap. Hawt.